missmisandry:

“No, asshole, liking fat girls doesn’t make you a bad guy.

Thinking you deserve anything because you like fat girls makes you a bad guy.

Thinking that saying you like fat girls somehow makes you entitled to our bodies and our affections makes you a bad guy.

Liking fat girls does not make you cool. Fat girls are not Wes Anderson films. They’re not instagram photos of the food you ate that day. Fat girls aren’t Palahniuk novels or DeVotchka. Fat girls aren’t vintage thrift shops. Liking us does not earn you street cred.

No self respecting fat woman is going to see “i fuck fatties!” on your profile and automatically want to fuck you. She might want to because of your personality, because you have things in common, because she thinks you’re cute, or because she wants to get her rocks off and you’re a willing candidate. But the fact that you like fat girls alone is not what is going to get her size XXL panties wet.

What if you went to somebody’s page and saw ‘I love women with big boobs!” or “I love women who wear a size 2!” What are you going to think about them? That they’re degrading women. That they are reducing women down to one physical aspect. Do you think women are going to come running? So why is someone saying they love bellies any different?

You think you’re super special for liking something the world has told you that you shouldn’t like. You’re not. You’re a normal person with normal tastes. Because fat girls are normal people. There is nothing exceptional about is. We don’t need your help to love ourselves.

And, frankly, if the first thing you say to me is that you love big girls, you’re pretty much guaranteeing you’ll never have a chance with me.

Because I fuck guys because they get me wet, not because my fat gets them hard.”

(Source: marrymejasonsegel, via girl-farts)